Why Washington and Tehran Keep Talking Past Each Other

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A Diplomatic Impasse With Dangerous Consequences

Both the Trump administration and the Iranian regime have stated, at various points, that they prefer a negotiated solution to ongoing hostilities. Yet a durable agreement appears more remote than ever. Two failed rounds of talks over the past eighteen months have each given way to renewed conflict, and analysts warn that another breakdown could trigger a fresh outbreak of fighting within weeks. Understanding why these negotiations keep collapsing requires looking beyond the headlines and into the structural, cultural, and political forces that have made compromise so difficult to sustain.

Karim Sadjadpour, a senior analyst at the Carnegie Endowment for International Peace, captured the essential asymmetry with striking economy: “America under Trump is the attention-deficit superpower… incapable of sustaining a strategy. Iran under the Islamic Republic is the obsessive-compulsive theocracy, fixated on resisting America far more than advancing the welfare of its own people.” His formulation — Trump has ADD; Iran has OCD — cuts to the heart of why these talks keep failing even when both parties nominally claim to want them to succeed.

The Timeframe Problem

No single structural obstacle has done more to derail negotiations than the profound mismatch in how each side understands the rhythm of diplomacy. When Trump set a sixty-day deadline for talks in April 2025, American officials treated it as a firm ultimatum backed by credible military threat. Iranian negotiators, steeped in a tradition that views extended dialogue as both strategically advantageous and culturally appropriate, did not believe he meant it. That miscalculation proved costly. The February round of talks this year lasted approximately three weeks — a timeframe in which even the most optimistic observers acknowledged that a comprehensive agreement was essentially impossible to achieve.

This is not merely a stylistic difference. It reflects a deeper divergence in what each side believes negotiations are fundamentally for. For the Trump administration, talks are a means to a rapid, definitive end — a signed deal that can be announced, celebrated, and claimed as a victory. For the Iranian regime, negotiations have historically served as a way to manage pressure, buy time, and avoid concessions while preserving strategic options. When those two approaches collide, the result is not a slow-moving negotiation but a series of mutual misreadings that eventually collapse into recrimination.

The Shape of a Deal — And Why It Matters

Even setting aside the timeline problem, the two sides disagree profoundly about what a successful agreement would look like. Trump has consistently described his ambition in maximalist terms: a landmark accord that redefines the bilateral relationship, reshapes regional dynamics, and cements his legacy as a dealmaker of historic proportion. He has spoken openly about wanting direct meetings with Iranian leadership, viewing face-to-face summitry as both strategically useful and politically powerful. Iranian officials, by contrast, have refused direct engagement with Trump and have sought instead a narrow, transactional arrangement — something closer to a managed truce than a peace agreement, negotiated quietly through intermediaries.

Sadjadpour put the cultural dimension plainly: “Trump and his negotiators pride themselves on being dealmakers. In Iranian political culture, the word for compromiser — ‘sazeshkar’ — is practically a slur.” He has argued that Iranian leaders’ refusal to meet Trump directly may have been a decisive error, since Trump’s personal investment in a deal could, under different circumstances, have overridden some of the structural obstacles. Instead, the Islamic Republic’s identity — built around continuous confrontation with the United States — makes genuine rapprochement not merely difficult but ideologically threatening to the regime’s self-conception.

The Mistrust at the Core

Beneath every tactical disagreement lies a foundational problem: neither side trusts the other to honour what it signs. Iranian officials have accused the Trump administration of attacking Iran while negotiations were actively underway — a charge they cite as evidence that American diplomacy is a cover for military preparation rather than a genuine attempt at resolution. This view is not confined to hardliners; it has permeated the thinking of pragmatists within the regime who might otherwise be inclined toward engagement, pushing them to adopt more defensive and less flexible positions at the table.

Washington’s counter-narrative is equally firm. American officials point to Iran’s alleged violation of the June 2026 MOU — specifically, attacks on shipping in the Strait of Hormuz carried out within days of the agreement being signed — as proof that the Iranian state cannot be treated as a unified, reliable negotiating partner. U.S. officials have been particularly explicit about their concern that whatever the more moderate elements of the Iranian government might agree to, the Islamic Revolutionary Guard Corps and other radical factions within the regime will not consider themselves bound by it. That structural reality — a regime in which hardline military institutions operate with significant autonomy from civilian diplomats — makes verification and enforcement of any agreement extraordinarily difficult to design.

Domestic Politics on Both Sides

Negotiations between states are never purely bilateral; they are always conducted under the weight of domestic political constraints, and in this case those constraints are severe on both sides. Iran’s negotiating team has faced sustained attacks from hardliners within the regime who regard any engagement with Washington as a form of capitulation. That pressure has forced pragmatists to take harder public positions than they might otherwise choose, narrowing the space for compromise and making it more difficult to sell any eventual agreement at home.

The American side faces its own version of this dynamic. Trump has received pressure from the right not to conclude a deal that could be portrayed as weakness or appeasement, while critics on the left have mocked any arrangement that either restores pre-war conditions or resembles the 2015 Joint Comprehensive Plan of Action negotiated under President Obama. That cross-cutting criticism has repeatedly caused Trump to pull back from more moderate positions he had begun to stake out, including, according to reporting, earlier this week. White House envoys Steve Witkoff and Jared Kushner, along with Vice President Vance, have continued to argue that diplomacy remains worth pursuing, but Trump himself has grown visibly more skeptical, telling Time magazine that what Iran has offered is “not good enough” and adding: “With Iran, I don’t think you could ever have peace.”

What Comes Next

Iranian President Masoud Pezeshkian has defended the negotiating process publicly, insisting that Iran has not and will not “run away from dialogue,” even as he accused the United States of striking Iranian targets three times despite having signed the June MOU. His position reflects the tension within the Iranian system between those who believe engagement can produce tangible benefits and those — particularly within the IRGC — who argue that only sustained battlefield pressure will compel Washington to alter its posture. Mohammad Ayatollahi Tabaar, associate professor of international affairs at Texas A&M University’s Bush School of Government and Public Service, wrote in a recent Foreign Affairs article that Iran is pursuing “a strategy toward the United States defined by escalation and continuous offense,” and that the regime is prepared to remain on a wartime footing indefinitely in pursuit of its core demand: the removal of all U.S. forces from the region.

The picture that emerges is not one of two sides that are simply failing to communicate clearly. It is one of two governments whose fundamental interests, political cultures, institutional structures, and domestic constraints make a durable agreement genuinely difficult to construct — and even harder to sustain. Whether that impasse is ultimately irreconcilable, or whether some narrower, more modest arrangement might yet hold, remains the central question facing both capitals as the prospect of resumed large-scale hostilities grows more concrete.

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